Lets put this in context.
My friend Jimbo is a devout Christian, He works hard - Studied hard and even would give his last penny to people in need. He has a good number of so called Christian 'Friends' and from time to time when they want to occupy themselves they call Jimbo to hang out.
Well Jimbo like most other Christians went to the socials we shall call them 'Cattle Markets'. So every cattle market event there was he was there meeting new Christian friends both guys and girls.
Jimbo at most of these cattle markets meets women however these women will happily talk to him, Joke with him and even give him their number. Jimbo does this with a few women.
Later that evening Jimbo texts one of the girls offering to meet up. The girl agrees but asks if she can bring a 'Friend' along. Err WAIT
Bring a 'Friend Along' why the fuck would a Girl want to do this clearly going to a cattle market and giving Jimbo your number would surely mean that you are intrested. This is where Christianity gets complicated.
See giving your mobile number out in Christian circles means literall sweet fuck all for the girls but for the guys they read it as the girl being intrested. Now we could say that the girls who do this maybe unaware of these signals but it is a well documented fact that this is how the guys pick this up so either the girl is unaware or she does it in ignorance to get her ego boosted.
Anyway back to the story
Jimbo agreed and these 3 people went out to the cinema - out for a drive and generally had a good night. Jimbo dropped the girls friend off at their home and drove the first girl home. Outside the girls house the girl admitted that she had 'Fun' and would like to do it again.
Later that evening Jimbo seeing that what the girl said was that she liked him he decided to test the waters by flirting. The girl then responded with overall positive text messages back leading [Jimbo] to become even more obvious the girl again joked and giggled back.
The next day Jimbo text the girl again to see if she wanted to hang out - She said she couldent that she was busy. Jimbo sent periodic text messages to the girl throughout the day and got little in the way of a response.
Jimbo went to bed and woke up the next morning
He text the girl again to find her being more likeable again and more chirpy and even found that she was starting to flirt back. So Jimbo asked the obvious if she wanted to go for dinner.
The girl surprisingly agreed to do this - At this point Jimbo is 99% certain the girl likes him!
So they go for dinner - Get along like a house on fire and Jimbo leaves the girl home. The girl admits that she really likes Jimbo and they home their 'Friendship can grow'
This puzzled Jimbo friendship - The flirting text messages that contained some explicit content did not indicate friendship but something much more intimate.
Jimbo started the firting again and got no response. So he though maybe shes busy or something. So he ignored the fact. And set periodic messages throughout the day he got nothing.
Two days later the girl sent text message to Jimbo - 'Hey I like you as a friend but I really dont see you as anything more than that - Sorry'
Jimbo became really disillusioned at this point why the hell did the girl string him along like this he thought - What did he do wrong.
Conclusion
I seen this and seen it first hand among many many Christians it seams to be the norm. Generally the girl will lead the guy on maybe get a dinner out of it then push him away. The girl will also then proceed to run the guys good name into the ground as some sort of Womaniser.
So my question to Christian girls is why the living fuck do you do such a cruel / manipulative and evil act to someone who clearly likes you?
In my opinion its called VANITY the bible speaks against it but as all Christians do we seam to say 'Ahh were vain - its a sin - thank god Jesus loves me' So they continue to sin!
I call this above type of deciption and minipulation the CGf Law implicating that it is a general overview of this concept.
Final Thought
As we have seen this girl stringing a guy along seams to be some sort of sick pleasure programmed into most Christian girls when they are young. Its even more difficult when the girl is actually relatively attractive as she is bound to know the reason for so many guy friends has an underlying meaning.
Disclaimer
Although I have not named any specific names most will agree they can identify either themselves or another person via this story.
I am not making a general sweeping statement that all Christian girls are vain / evil and cruel I just say that during my 5 years of Christianity I have encountered this hundreds of times among many heart broken guys.
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