The Christian Girl-Friend ( CGf Law )

After last time basically obliterating Christianity for the mess that it is I decided to pick at a specific sub-type that has affected certain people.  That is the topic of the Christian Girl-Friend.

Lets put this in context.

My friend Jimbo is a devout Christian,  He works hard - Studied hard and even would give his last penny to people in need.  He has a good number of so called Christian 'Friends' and from time to time when they want to occupy themselves they call Jimbo to hang out.

Well Jimbo like most other Christians went to the socials we shall call them 'Cattle Markets'.  So every cattle market event there was he was there meeting new Christian friends both guys and girls.

Jimbo at most of these cattle markets meets women however these women will happily talk to him,  Joke with him and even give him their number.  Jimbo does this with a few women.

Later that evening Jimbo texts one of the girls offering to meet up.  The girl agrees but asks if she can bring a 'Friend' along.  Err WAIT

Bring a 'Friend Along' why the fuck would a Girl want to do this clearly going to a cattle market and giving Jimbo your number would surely mean that you are intrested.  This is where Christianity gets complicated.

See giving your mobile number out in Christian circles means literall sweet fuck all for the girls but for the guys they read it as the girl being intrested.  Now we could say that the girls who do this maybe unaware of these signals but it is a well documented fact that this is how the guys pick this up so either the girl is unaware or she does it in ignorance to get her ego boosted.

Anyway back to the story

Jimbo agreed and these 3 people went out to the cinema - out for a drive and generally had a good night.  Jimbo dropped the girls friend off at their home and drove the first girl home.  Outside the girls house the girl admitted that she had 'Fun' and would like to do it again.

Later that evening Jimbo seeing that what the girl said was that she liked him he decided to test the waters by flirting.  The girl then responded with overall positive text messages back leading [Jimbo] to become even more obvious the girl again joked and giggled back.

The next day Jimbo text the girl again to see if she wanted to hang out - She said she couldent that she was busy.  Jimbo sent periodic text messages to the girl throughout the day and got little in the way of a response.

Jimbo went to bed and woke up the next morning

He text the girl again to find her being more likeable again and more chirpy and even found that she was starting to flirt back.  So Jimbo asked the obvious if she wanted to go for dinner.

The girl surprisingly agreed to do this - At this point Jimbo is 99% certain the girl likes him!

So they go for dinner - Get along like a house on fire and Jimbo leaves the girl home.  The girl admits that she really likes Jimbo and they home their 'Friendship can grow'

This puzzled Jimbo friendship - The flirting text messages that contained some explicit content did not indicate friendship but something much more intimate.

Jimbo started the firting again and got no response.  So he though maybe shes busy or something.  So he ignored the fact.  And set periodic messages throughout the day he got nothing.

Two days later the girl sent text message to Jimbo - 'Hey I like you as a friend but I really dont see you as anything more than that - Sorry'

Jimbo became really disillusioned at this point why the hell did the girl string him along like this he thought - What did he do wrong.

Conclusion

I seen this and seen it first hand among many many Christians it seams to be the norm.  Generally the girl will lead the guy on maybe get a dinner out of it then push him away.  The girl will also then proceed to run the guys good name into the ground as some sort of Womaniser.

So my question to Christian girls is why the living fuck do you do such a cruel / manipulative and evil act to someone who clearly likes you?

In my opinion its called VANITY the bible speaks against it but as all Christians do we seam to say 'Ahh were vain - its a sin - thank god Jesus loves me'  So they continue to sin!

I call this above type of deciption and minipulation the CGf Law implicating that it is a general overview of this concept.

Final Thought

As we have seen this girl stringing a guy along seams to be some sort of sick pleasure programmed into most Christian girls when they are young.  Its even more difficult when the girl is actually relatively attractive as she is bound to know the reason for so many guy friends has an underlying meaning.

Disclaimer

Although I have not named any specific names most will agree they can identify either themselves or another person via this story.

I am not making a general sweeping statement that all Christian girls are vain / evil and cruel I just say that during my 5 years of Christianity I have encountered this hundreds of times among many heart broken guys.

The truth that Christians fail to Admit

When I first became a Christian on the 11th of October 2008 I experienced what I could call the 'Spiritual High'.  Before this point for the sake of argument I was spiritually dead.

I started joining many different groups and going to many church events.  'Socials' / 'Small Groups' / 'Large Meetings' and Church - I had an even spread of religion across my life and I was slowly immerse of everything.

I fell for all intense of purposes one of them.  I went to Outreach heck I event went on an overseas mission.  But one thing always got to me - How come 'Most Christians' got along with others?

This may be a sweeping statement and very generalised but what I meant was that there were Christians who I had seen who had one or two friends and others who had 20 - 30 friends.  Needless to say the 'Popular' Christians always got their own way at the expenses of the less popular.

I recall an event at my local Christian Union - I had brought a Christian friend of mine along when we were speaking the CU Committee decided to have a prayer circle.  One thing that offended both my friend and I is that we were asked 'Move Out of the Way'.  Funny how prayer is assent-ion to God but it appears for many Christians its exclusive for some.

So I never tried to let this bother me -  However the thing that did make me light with anger was the fact that during these Christian Union Elections - The out going committee appoints the new incoming committee.  Generally a Stalinist approach where the leaders decide their successors and it is not left to the will of God or the people.  

To Paraphrase :: The Previous Committee Chose the next committee by the people who where their friends i.e 'Had Meals and Dinners Together'  Not because they actually knew fuck all about God.

So in my anger seeing this list and hearing mumblings from others around me I used my vote to point out ' IT IS NOT A POPULARITY CONTEST ' When the CU folks were counting these votes they came across mine.  In regular Christian fashion they called their other Committee friends over and they all laughed at the statement.

They did not appeal for who wrote it and did not care that what they were doing is seen by some as wrong!

There were others at these Christian Union meetings who would have made an effort to meet each and every person that came through the door.  I never 'ONCE' seen a single committee member meet a new person.

Why are my telling this story -- Well because in Churches the exact tribal politics happens,  In a Church it is not so much your popularity but more how much the church can benefit from having a person in power.  Imagine a guy who struggles to make ends meet and gives £5.00 of his pension to the church no one would give him a second glance to be a treasurer but they would give that to the bank manager who gives £50,000 to the church.

Christians may say Jesus this and Jesus that but from the Interpretation that I read from Jesus.

Matthew 7:22 - will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. 22"Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' 23"And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.'

If we read this in context we can see quite plainly that Jesus said that not many would get to heaven.  Look at it this way - Jesus said many people would cast out demons and perform miracles.  Where do these miracles come from.  These people obviously must have thought they were 'Right with God'.  E.g. Imagine a Christian today claiming a miracle.  That does not mean they are Christian whatsoever according to what Jesus said.

Jesus also mentioned that those who do the will of his father - This means that the belief in Jesus is not required but to follow the LAW given in the OT.

I could go on about this but simply put even the Christians who say they are enlightened have no more guarantee of going to heaven than someone with an Agnostic or even Atheist view of God.

Think about it like this - An atheist does search for God but can never find him,  So the unbelief is because GOD did not REVEAL HIMSELF so if a concept of hell existed then why would an atheist go there because surely they looked and he was not found.

Conclusion:

From my observation Christians and Churches are clubs and organisations if you are in the organisation you might get privileges if the organisation believes it can utilise what you have.  Christians fail to admit that the underlying motive of Christianity is actually evil.

Thought for the Day

Christians goto Socials - A majority of Guys go to see the women!  A majority of Girls go for Vanity!  So why do socials exist - (TO BOOST GIRLS EGOS and MAKE THE GUYS LUST)

Genesis 26 - 50

Genesis 26

·         God said he would bless Isaac and the land he is on?!  Why the hell did he let a famine happen in the first place?  He even let it happen at the time of Abraham!

·         Again God said he would bless all Nations on Earth!

·         God did not reward Abraham out of love it appears it was conditional rewards!

·         What are Gods laws and decrees and commands to Abraham!  I don’t see any?!

·         Oh for fuck sake – Isaac telling people yet again Rebekah is his sister – Deception yet again!  If God blesses people why do these same people need to lie to others won’t god smite them?!

·         Isaac and Abraham never trusted the people they talked to and felt it easier to lie to them which in some cases hurt the person they were lying to and in other cases made the other people feel shame.

·         So god made Isaac more powerful than the people he was in the company of that’s a bit rude.

·         Love the way people named places even places they didn’t own!

·         Funny now on the 3^rd well they build also the one that was not disputed over they claimed that it was God who gave it to them?

Genesis 27

·         Here we see God again being friendly with ‘Some’ People and also we can observe that god had to buy Isaacs affection.

·         Oh common so the Kings that allowed Isaac to live in their land needed to reason with him not to kill them that’s still one-sided ness on the side of God!

·         Lovely Esau had two wives – Must have been nice for him?

·         Isaac does not know the day of his death but is completely confident that his son will hunt an animal and prepare dinner before this happens!

·         Why did the statement Isaac made ‘I may give you my blessing before I die’ not match the one that Rebecca said ‘I may give you my blessing in the presence of the LORD before I die?

·         I love the way that Fathers back then cursed a son for Deception yet these same fathers had no problems doing it to others.  Funny how they are supposed to set an example.

·         It’s interesting that just by saying ‘Let the curse fall on me’ that immediately moves any potential curse to the receiver!! Interesting?

·         Yet again Jacob refers to the Lord as a different person ‘The lord you’re God’ not his own God?!

·         I like the way Isaac moves he clearly does not believe in his sons!  That he needs verification!

·         I love the way Isaac had a problem that he felt Esau but heard Jacob and didn’t question it!  A logical thing to do would be to summon both sons!

·         Isaac said be lord over your brothers! Did Isaac have more children – it’s not documented!

·         How it that Isaac’s blessing is cannot be revoked?!

·         Esau said that Jacob deceived him of his birth right!  Interesting that when Jacob asked for it – it was not like Esau did not have a choice.

·         Ok so Esau was done an Injustice then Isaac basically punished and cursed him.  What the fuck?

·         Rebecca seams to make a point that she has only two children so again where are the Brothers!

Genesis 28

·         Sweet Jacob is now told to take a wife who is his cousin – yet earlier in the passage Jacob is told to flee at once.  Funny enough he has time to stop by Isaac before leaving!

·         Now we see that Jacob is sent to marry his Auntie?  We are also told this is in addition to the other wives he had.  Why then did he need another wife?

·         Jacob seen a stairway leading to heaven with Angels going up and down?!  How does he know they are angels and how does he know what heaven is?!

·         He also is able to see the lord above it.

·         God is again giving favouritism to just one specific person.  So much for God being fair – I would have thought he would have known the deception that Jacob did but clearly he didn’t care!

·         Ok so first we heard that he rested in a ‘Certain place’ Then he we hear it was called ‘Luz’ then Jacob renamed it to ‘Bethel’ and it was a City?!

·         So here we have Jacob saying if God ‘is with him / watches over him / gives him food and clothes’ then he will say that the Lord will be hiss God.  I love the one sided greed of this.  So obviously people used God to get what they wanted!

Genesis 29

·         Ok so Jacob bought Rachel because she was sexy!

·         Love the formalness of Genesis – Give me my wife I want to have sex with her lol.

·         Ok so yet again more people are being deceived – seams a lot of this bull shit happened back then.

·         So Laban offered to sell his other daughter for 7 years hard work.

·         Nice to know that Jacob has two wives and hates one of them.

·         Again how do we know these people were barren! What the fuck!

·         So God gave Leah a child because Jacob did not love her – so that Jacob would love her!

·         So we read Leah had 4 sons – All in one year / all from God or was sex involved?!

Genesis 30

·         So Rachel told Jacob to give her children or she would kill herself?!  That’s a bit extreme.  And oddly it seems to be Jacobs fault that she’s not bearing or is (Barren)

·         Then he became angry with Rachel – So obviously Jacob did not love his wife as we once thought as he had no problem sleeping with her servant?!

·         Why is the son Rachel’s when it’s clearly got a different mother how does that work?

·         So now Jacob has 3 wives thanks to Leah and he yet again sleeps with her.

·         Why does Leah have a grudge against Rachel surely she and Jacob were in love and were the ones who were supposed to be rightfully married!

·         Sweet now we see Rachel offering Prostitution of Jacob lo.

·         Why did Leah have a 5^th Son what did God hear?!

·         Why did Leah end up having 7 children when previously we are told she stopped having children?

·         Op so god now decided to give Rachel Children after her sister had 7 – That’s rough lol.  So much for him being fair!

·         God as we see only blesses Isaac and those he is in the presence of God does not bless anyone but Isaac

Genesis 31

·         So what is going on here?  Jacob said that Laban had cheated him wages even when Jacob said that he would work for free?!  In order that he may marry Leah and Rachel?

·         Then Jacob said that he would take all her father’s flocks and then God said to Jacob that he would look after him.  Fuck me!

·         Ok so god Punished Laban for what purpose?

·         Interesting Jacob now goes back to his father Isaac who is still alive at least 20 years later.  So much for him dying lol.

·         Laban did not believe in the God of Jacob but knew some supernatural shit was going on.

·         Jacob now deceives people and God is looking after Jacob.

·         Nice God giving threats to look after the assholes he is friends with.

·         Ok so now Rachel knows what a period is – How can she have a period when she’s already had children?

·         Very interesting the God of Nahor and the God of Abraham.  Why make the clear distinction if it has no relevance.

Genesis 32

·         Again Jacob sees the Angels of God where are they today?  Did anyone else see them?

·         God is again being used for War.

·         What did God wrestle with Jacob it seems kind of funny? 

·         Again we see God coming to earth.  Interestingly he could not overpower Jacob?  Is God weak?  Also why do we need Jesus when God came as Himself!

·         Then God tried to break Jacobs’s hip?

·         Why did God ask for Jacobs’s name?

·         How did they know what a tendon was?

Genesis 34

·         Ok we see that Shechem violated Dinah but he also loved her?  So basically he raped her!

·         Is Shechem got his dad to buy Dinah why did Shechem go to Jacob too?

·         They now say that they need someone who is circumcised.  This is because God has a problem realizing who his own people is!

·         Ok what the fuck why did Jacobs’s sons go and Kill everyone in the city.  Those in the City had found favour as agreed previously and they also agreed to circumcise their men – That is a horrific attack and one as we see that God was ignorant about.

·         The rest of the people looted the city.  What the fuck?!

Genesis 35

·         God told Jacob to build an alter to God.  Why is God talking like a 3^rd Person?

·         Jacob’s Children and Wives seemed to have followed other Gods as he tells them to destroy them.   (External Influences)

·         Why did God put terror in the towns around Jacob that’s terribly unfair!

·         God already called Jacob Israel in a previous chapter?

·         We also see God appearing to Jacob – It’s interesting that God does this.

·         Interestingly the Only encounters to God up to this point are between the ‘Chosen Ones’ and no one else!

·         So Rachel Died obviously she died quite young and God seemed to have no problem letting her die.

·         Isaac died at 180 years.

Genesis 36

·         So Esau took Canaanite wives – funny how Abraham had no problem with him doing it.  What a dick!

·         Esau also had 3 wives.

Genesis 37

·         It’s kind of obvious that favouritism is a big thing in Genesis.  Also that Jacob was a bit of a Dick because he intentionally turned Joseph’s brothers against him.

·         Joseph is now clearly showboating to his brothers.

Genesis 38

·         God put Er to death because he was wicked.  Funny how God was wicked to so many yet turns a blind eye.  Abraham was a twat and look at the blessings he got!

·         Because Onan refused to have sex with his brother’s wife and instead put his sperm on the floor God killed him.

·         Judah then thought that his next son Selah would also be killed by God.  Just shows how Judah doing a Good thing for his other brothers is rewarded doesn’t it.

·         Funny how Judah now decides to sleep with pure randomers – this was also going on a lot in Genesis.

·         Ok wait Judah burned his own daughter in law to death – the same girl he slept with that is fucking cruel.  Do we have a line from God on this one? Funny also this that when Judah realised it was his own daughter in law he didn’t want to kill her!

Genesis 39

·         God never seemed to recue Joseph just bless him.

·         Again we see joseph in charge of everything but in Prison so God did not free him yet again!

Genesis 41

·         Joseph says that God is the only person who can interpret a dream yet he goes on to interpret them.  Is Joseph God?!

·         It appears according to Joseph if God gives two dreams it means God has decided something!

·         Joseph is said to be known as the next in command beside Pharaoh however further research does not find Joseph as anything to do with Pharaoh.  Some people say he is Imhotep however this is not correct as Imhotep was a high priest of the Sun God Ra.

·         Interestingly the Nile God Khoum was the one who told people about the end of the Drought.

·         The bible mentions famine but no drought.  That and if it was Joseph then Joseph was clearly praying to Other Gods who gave him other Visions.

·         According to the bible there was no Famine though because Joseph was wise so this could not be him.

Genesis 42

·         Why would harm come to Benjamin?! Of all people?

·         Joseph yet again is a condescending twat to his other brothers.

·         Interestingly we read that Joseph could understand his brothers.  Could he not understand them before?? It makes no sense- It’s also interesting that he had a previous dialog with them.

Genesis 43

·         Again we see that it’s clear that people in the OT take each other’s punishment it seems transferable.

·         Why did Josephs brothers not seem to concern for their lives only the fact that they may become slaves and have their donkeys taken.

·         Joseph says their ‘God’ not his own ‘God’ there is now a clear distinction between them both.

·         Joseph is saying God be gracious but not to their God?

Genesis 44

·         Here we go yet again.  Joseph being a dick by deceiving his brothers.

·         Why did Joseph’s brothers mention Gold when no mention of it was there before?

·         Joseph then says that he is using Divination!

Genesis 45

·         Joseph is heard wailing from some distance by a Good number of people!

·         So although what Joseph’s brothers did was evil it was actually good.  But why would God do such a horrible thing initially such as punish the innocent!

Genesis 46

·         It’s interesting to note here that God is identifying himself as if someone does not know who he is.

·         It’s interesting that Jacob can choose when he can die.

Genesis 47

·         The famine that we learned about earlier was apparently going to be ok because Joseph was in charge and now we learn it never really worked!

·         Lovely so now we read that Joseph turned all the lovely people in Egypt who had been so kind to him to servants.  He literally robbed them of everything.  This is typical from Abraham’s lineage.

·         How did the Israelites buy property in Egypt when the Pharaoh owned it I guess he sold it onwards?

·         Now we see Jacob doing the thigh thing again what the fuck is it with people feeling each others balls.

Genesis 48

·         God offered land as an everlasting thing.  So that means that the world cannot end!

Genesis 49

·         Interestingly Jacob knew he was going to die and he did not expect God to come and take him to heaven.  He just expected to be ‘DEAD’

Genesis 50

·         The embalming and mourning must have been horrible since Jacob was dead for so long.

·         How did the Concept of a Sin come about when throughout all of Genesis we do not know what a Sin actually is?